When you need to be great at the sex, you must know how to turn your ex partner towards-and then we might help.

THERE’S A myth floating around that women are much harder to turn on than men are. And while experts say some women may crave more foreplay than others, research shows that it doesn’t take heaps more effort to get them in the mood. In fact, a 2019 study found that men and women don’t differ much at all in how their brains respond to sexually arousing imagery-and an more mature Canadian research found that it takes both men and women an average of 10 minutes to reach “peak arousal” while seeing pornography.

Given that we removed one to upwards, why don’t we address how exactly to change a woman toward. However, people is different-and exactly what becomes one gal scorching and troubled will most likely not work for the next.

“Some women need to feel safe and cared for, while others get turned on in the face of danger or being ‘found out,’” explains Leah Carey, a sex and intimacy coach and host of the podcast A Girls Talk about Sex. Continue reading →